5 Sure Signs Your Partner Is Cheating On You
In a relationship it’s NOT easy to notice if your partner is cheating on you, especially if your partner is good at playing their cards right so that you can not ever find out. If you happen to notice something fishy in them, you can not just jump into conclusions that they are cheating on you.
So how are you going to know if for sure your partner is actually cheating on you? what will make you believe, it’s true that they are cheating on you without even asking them?.
Being faithful in a relationship doesn’t guarantee faithfulness in your partner too. That’s why sometimes it’s good to know what’s going on. Now, if you notice something is not right with your lover, does that necessarily mean they are cheating on you?. In that case, here are 5 sure signs your partner is cheating on you
behind your back.
If your partner has these 5 signs, but they did not have any of them when the two of you got together, then chances are they might be cheating on you. So that you can avoid messing up the relationship, by jumping into conclusions, here are signs that show, that your partner is cheating on you.
Confirm that your partner is displaying these 5 signs several times, so that you can have a clear understanding if they are actually cheating on you, here are the 5 Sure Signs Your Partner Is Cheating On You
1: Their phone suddenly becomes more private
Out of nowhere, if your partner starts making their phone more and more private each time, there’s something going on. If they use their phone in the bathroom, they never leave it behind any more or it’s always in their pocket/bag even when they are in the house, something is definitely NOT right.
They become very overprotective and they easily get mad when you try to touch their phone, it means they are most probably talking to someone else other than you and they don’t want you to know about it.
If your partner had no problem with you handling their phone at one point, and all of a sudden they seem to be so protective of their phone, you need to think twice about what’s going on. That’s a signs, don’t assume it.
2: Your partner’s friends have changed
Exactly, a friend is a friend, and they will definitely do anything they possibly can to protect their friendship. So if you notice that your partner’s friends are acting weird sometimes when they are around you, something is up.
The thing is, your partner’s friends already know what’s going on, if you are being cheated on, they already know it and they just can’t tell you about it. When you try talking to one your partner’s friends and they start talking weirdly or they get nervous, if this is not their usual character, just know you are being played, somehow.
3: They Improve their general appearance
By improving their general appearance, it means they have started dressing well, using perfume more than they normally would. In short, they just put extra effort in looking good more than they usually would.
This tells you that they are trying to impress someone else, who is the person they are most likely, cheating on you with.
One thing to consider, is that, if at all, with all this effort they are putting on appearing (dressing and hygiene) good doesn’t reflect you in any way, for instance if your partner just dresses well but never asks you if they look good, or your advice on what they should add on or remove, then someone else somewhere is playing that part for you.
So if your partner dresses normally when around you but puts more effort on their dressing when they are heading out, be ready for what you are about to find out.
4: They become unreachable at some point
If it is NOT usually their thing to become unreachable, for example their phone being off most of the time, and their friends can’t seem to figure out where they could be at the moment, you need to know that that’s an actual sign. Especially if they come back with a lame excuse.
If your partner doesn’t reply to your texts for hours or if they miss your calls but don’t even bother to call you back. They might be falling out of love slowly, apparently their might be someone else who just took your place, without your knowledge.
5: They blame everything on you
If your partner starts being hostile towards you, by always making you feel like the bad guy in every situation. What they are trying to do is to push you away so that they can have that “private” time.
The sad truth is that they can also be putting all the blame on you, on the little things that’s happening in your relationship so that they can find a way to say “it’s over”.
So if they start raising their voice when talking to you, pointing fingers at you on the little things that’s happening, easily getting mad or avoid talking to you for no good reason, then you should know that all they are trying to do is lose you, most definitely because they think they might have found someone better than you.
Concluding on 5 Sure Signs Your Partner Is Cheating On You
Bottom line is, if your partner TRULY LOVES YOU they will NEVER put them self in a position to LOSE YOU. That’s what you should understand, people don’t try putting themselves in position where they know they might lose someone they love.
And if your partner is cheating on you, they don’t really value you that much. Over 69% of couples, have cheated at least once. It’s not a new thing to happen, the stronger the bond between the couples is, the longer they will last, so you can decide to leave if your partner is cheating on you, or you can stay and fix your relationship. It’s really up to you to decide how you are going to react to it.
Remember life is 40% what happens and 60% how you react to it.
CAUTION: before you can judge your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband that they are cheating on you, please make sure you are VERY sure that, that’s what you think they are doing. Because telling your partner that they are cheating on you when they actually aren’t can ruin everything. Be sure to look for these 5 signs, confirm them properly before you make your next step. But always remember. A person who truly loves you, will never put him/her self in a position to lose you.
There you have it, 5 Sure Signs Your Partner Is Cheating On You